Community Guidelines

At Mendis, we are building a safe, supportive, and respectful space for men with disability to connect, share, and grow. By joining, you agree to follow these Community Guidelines in all online and in-person sessions.

Respect & Safety

Treat all members with respect, even when you disagree.
No harassment, bullying, hate speech, or discrimination of any kind.
Respect personal boundaries. Do not pressure others to share more than they are comfortable with.

Confidentiality

What is shared in sessions stays in sessions. Do not record, screenshot, or share other people’s stories without consent.
Respect the privacy of all participants and facilitators.

Peer Support, Not Therapy

Mendis is peer-led. We share experiences, strategies, and encouragement. It is not a replacement for therapy or medical care. Please see our Disclaimer for details.

Participation

You are welcome to join sessions in whatever way feels comfortable — talk, listen, laugh, or just show up quietly.
Respect speaking turns in Zoom and in-person groups. Avoid dominating or interrupting.
Be on time where possible; let us know if you can’t attend.

Safe Storytelling

Share from your own experience — avoid giving direct medical or therapeutic advice.
Avoid graphic detail that may distress others; focus on feelings and learnings rather than shock value.
Remember that vulnerability is powerful, but safety comes first.

Online Etiquette

Mute your microphone when not speaking to reduce background noise.
Use respectful names and avatars in Zoom/online spaces.
No disruptive behaviour, spamming, or off-topic posting.

Consequences

Minor breaches may result in a warning.
Serious or repeated breaches may result in removal from sessions or suspension of membership.
Mendis reserves the right to protect the community and remove members who cause harm.

Need Support?

If you feel unsafe, uncomfortable, or need support, contact us directly at todd@murfittelevation.com.au or speak with a facilitator during a session.